member_0e6954df9e Board regular Thread starter
Many contributors on this site share certain aspects of their “chastity relationship” but it may be hard for new joiners and older members to get an overall picture of the whole spectrum of possibilities and motivations. So I think it would be interesting for members to contribute some characteristics (sexual and non-sexual) of their chastity relationships which would help to show the diverse possibilities. How about trying to list 6 characteristics? I’ll get the ball rolling and have tried to add some explanation:
- So our orgasm-denial/chastity lifestyle has been going for 10 years. I guess it really meshed with my wife became increasingly to dislike male domination in aspects of society, and the rise of misogyny. The idea of not being penetrated anymore but getting all her orgasms from cunnilingus became more and more appealing. Do not let the male penis rule. She is no longer the receptacle for ejaculate. I’ve asked her if she misses intercourse, and she does not, at all. So…
- Starting about two years ago, penetration for me is a thing of the past. Sex is about our joint pleasure in my giving her pussy worship.
- She doesn’t touch my penis at all. This helps to ensure no accidental orgasms and is also symbolic. She uses other parts of my body for teasing, particularly my balls, inner thighs and buttocks.
- I wear a chastity device 24/7 unless out for occasional skin problems (as is the case presently). Normally it does not come off for sex, only for necessary hair removal, then back on.
- Orgasms for me are very scarce (three or four last year), perhaps zero this. We don’t do ruined orgasms etc. My only fluid release is by night-time dribbling or milking. “Spurting” is also a thing of the past, even when I get an orgasm.
- While my wife expects me to do things which demand more physical strength, she really hates overtly macho behaviour. I’m happy to put washing out on the line to dry in full view of male neighbours. Last night at a charity fundraiser I won a lottery prize: my wife was delighted I chose a bag of French perfume and make-up for her, even though I got a few quizzical looks from both male and female audience members.