I decided to share how things are going with me in this new lifestyle. We’ve been dating for five months, and I finally told her about my submissive nature. She isn’t very dominant by default, so I thought I might have messed it all up. Even though she admitted to being nervous because she didn’t quite know what to do or how to go about it, she was willing to give it a shot.
A month later, she’s wearing her key around her neck like jewelry, making suggestive comments, and using the kind of language we all love (things like “you can’t cum,” etc.). She seems completely at home with it. She even bought a strap-on so I can fuck her when I’m not allowed to finish (I can’t wait for her to see it; she’s going to adore it).
Last night, she said I had created a monster. She told me she spent the whole day reading blogs featuring dominant women to get some ideas. She mentioned she has one idea in mind that wasn’t on my list of “no’s.” Here are my boundaries:
- No physical injury—I don’t want ball stomping or cuts.
- I’m not into potty training or diapers.
- I won’t be a servant, butler, or chore person. I do more than my fair share already; I just don’t enjoy the chores as much.
- No cuckolding for me—I can’t imagine watching her get railed by another man while I sit and watch. (I didn’t tell her that I’d be okay with a threesome if I’m involved, though.)
- She doesn’t like humiliating or degrading me too harshly. Playful teasing about my size or other things is fine as long as it’s fun and honest, not just mean-spirited.
I’m looking forward to our next time together. Since I spend three nights a week with my son, we are apart for those days. I told her I bought a new lock and key; I didn’t want something ordinary, so I made a pendant myself. I took two heart pendants and soldered them together, then sanded and polished the piece to give it an antique look. Hopefully, she likes it.
I started this thread because I searched hard online for people with similar interests, but every time I found something that looked right, it turned out to be a maid service blog, caning blog, cuckolding blog, or permanent denial blog. We are just beginning and aren’t sure where she will take things yet, but we seem confident enough, and she is still very excited about it all.
