Female led relationships discussion

Before I explain the meaning behind the title of this thread, allow me to add some background information for context. My wife and I are relatively new to chastity, I introduced it and she’s liking it more and more. Over the past several weeks, I’ve been locked in a my new steel chastity device. I don’t even know what the name of it is, but we replaced the cb6000 with it because it’s easier to take off, is easy to clean, and with the smallest ring, it’s still comfy and I honestly haven’t been able to pull out yet, which she loves. This is it: So far, my wife has received oral from me about 2 times a week and allows me to have penetrative sex with her once a week, but I only get to ejaculate every 2 weeks, though she’d like for us to eventually reach a month. It’s really all centered around her sex drive, which is considerably less than mine, despite her being young and in good health and athletic shape like me. She will sometimes out of the blue decide to pull down my pants when I’m watching television and perform oral on me while I’m locked in order to tease me, which with this device, I can’t describe how enormously amazing yet frustrating that feeling is. The end result is usually me moaning and begging to be unlocked and her laughing and saying that’s enough while ordering me to go wash the dishes. With chastity, I assumed I would be experiencing nocturnal emissions, however, I’ve yet to experience one, even after 2 weeks of chastity. One thing I have taken notice of is that I experience what’s described by others as a prostate milking almost about every week. The biggest difference though with how I’ve been experiencing it and with how others normally describe experiencing it is that mine happens after using the bathroom (no.2) anout once a week while locked in chastity. A steady flow of semen pours out of my penis (about a full table spoon or more) just as though I was urinating. I experience absolutely no mental or physical pleasure from it whatsoever and in fact, I wouldn’t even realize it if I didn’t look down. The only effect is that the feeling of fullness in my testicles that I usually start feeling after about the first 3 to 4 days while chaste is considerably less, even almost gone entirely, but frustratingly, my sexual desire doesn’t get diminished at all whatsoever. After researching this somewhat, I’ve concluded that this is my body’s natural method of eliminating the unused preseminal prostatic fluid, which they say is actually healthier for the prostate than an orgasm because it eliminates much more of the fluid. Since I wasn’t having any nocturnal emissions, my prostate would fill up and then empty out at the slightest stimulation. I’m not sure, but I suspect that this “natural milking”, as I like to call it, might actually be interfering in allowing me to have a nocturnal emission because there isn’t a lot of fluid left behind. I do have sexual dreams all time, but they usually frustratingly end with failed erection attempts in the chastity device, so I don’t think I’ll ever achieve nocturnal emissions regardless. I just wanted to share my experience with this lovely online community of ours to see how many others here were aware of this. I know that the ladies here often prefer to perform the prostate milking themselves because it can be even much more psychologically effective when a woman has her sub on all fours while milking him and forces him to watch as he witnesses yet another wasted orgasm opportunity for him get deposited into a glass. Thank you and I look forward to hearing the thoughts, opinions, ideas, etc. of everyone here.