My wife and I have reached a stage in our chastity dynamic where she no longer wishes for me to be released. She has fully seized command of my orgasms, noting that during 2016 her plan allows only two or three from me.
The issue on my side was that my career requires me to work outdoors with limited bathroom access, making it quite difficult to urinate while standing. Being handy around the house, I figured out how to safely alter my Bird cage so the bar wouldn’t obstruct the flow of urine as much.
I took it to my bench grinder and removed the problematic bar, being careful not to damage any other bars on the cage frame. Once opened up properly, I used a file to smooth away any remaining sharp edges.
About a week has passed since I finished the modification. Now I can stand and pee without making a mess of myself. The opening is wide enough that even when it feels tight, nothing rubs or causes sores. My wife likes the larger hole too; during teasing sessions, she runs her finger up and down the slot while keeping me locked in to control my orgasms.