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A brief intro: I’ve been together with my wife for nearly a decade. We always had a good sex life, but I noticed our drives didn’t quite line up. She never minded if I watched porn or masturbated while she was in the background, yet it felt like it was straining us. I found myself turning down her advances because I’d just finished on my own and wanted to break that cycle. Since there wasn’t much chance of her libido shifting to match mine, I began looking into male chastity devices. About a year back, she agreed when I suggested we try locking me up for a while, so I bought my first cage online. I started with plastic but quickly picked up a steel version from a Chinese site. The initial fit wasn’t perfect; after taking more accurate measurements, I got another one which is what I’m wearing now. It’s as close to ideal as I’ll likely find at that price point. I still enjoy porn and browsing Tumblr, and it feels great knowing the arousal builds up without any release coming soon. My mood has lifted significantly, largely thanks to my wonderful wife who helps me curb daily masturbation. She typically keeps me locked for 7-10 days before losing interest in our little game, but I trust she’ll gradually become more engaged with this lifestyle.