Hi everyone, I was pretty active here a few years ago when I was in a chastity relationship. That ended, and I was out of the world for years. I missed it terribly but wasn’t into self-locking. I’ve been seeing a dominant woman a bit and bought a cheap cage to try out myself. It was good enough, and I brought it up to her. She also had some experience with chastity and jumped at the idea. I don’t have any of my older cages:| (, so I ordered a Cherry Keeper Stub with a couple ring options. We tried it out and found a set up that works. I wore that for a week to test it. We discussed her being my keyholder and she insisted that it be on her terms (understandably.) I readily agreed, especially as part of my kink is consensual nonconsent. We were playing again this weekend after two more weeks in the cage. I asked if I was going to be let out of the cage some, and her reaction was slightly unexpected. She looked at me quizzically and said “of course not. Why would you?” I didn’t have a great answer and she explained that she has a strong denial kink. That she didn’t plan to take the cage off to play, and wants to see how I evolve over the next few months. Ummm months? I think the longest I ever went before was about 90 days, and that was after a few years in chastity. I gently mentioned this and she just chuckled. She said my personality was already sweeter after a couple of weeks. Then she sealed it with “You’re locked for me and you. You don’t get to ‘play’ like most men. This is who you are now.” She knows I’m experienced so she’s going right to the deep end. We finalized the rules yesterday, and just reviewing them causes butterflies in my stomach. Anyway, I’m back and this is where things stand! I’ve so missed it.
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