For those of you who have read my thread in The Foyer, you know I started my chastity as a way to regain my wife/KH’s trust after an affair. I’ve also posted our contract. It’s been four days now and I seem to be handling the CB2K pretty well. There are still some things I’m getting used to, like having to sit down to pee, including wiping like a girl to catch drips, and my groin waking me up at 3:30 am every morning. So far, no chafing issues, but while getting in and out of the forklift, one of my “boys” decided he wanted to slip out of the ring. This tells me I need a smaller ring size. Other than that, I don’t think it has truly sunk in yet that I am actually locked down.
Now here is where it gets interesting: my wife/KH has taken this very seriously and has already started to change. Several days ago we were discussing what she needed to do to keep things going—tease and denial—and took the advice, sending me to bed very horny. The next day I got a call from her; she informed me that it wasn’t my place to dictate how this arrangement worked—that was up to her. Since I kept interfering and interjecting, my release date has been moved from March 7th to March 15th. That’s fine because I work out of town anyway and won’t be back until the 14th.
Well, this morning she told me she decided to take the kids to her mother’s on Friday and pick them up Sunday. She says she needs some time to “decompress” without anyone around. I texted her that she does need that alone time and suggested maybe calling a girlfriend for a night out. Her reply was: “Can I do MY weekend my way… etc.” I texted back that I was sorry I said anything, just trying to help. A few minutes later, another text came in: “You self-centered selfish man, how DARE you try to make me feel guilty! MARCH 26th is your new release date. I am not playing into your petty bullshit. If you want a month then keep acting the way you are.” Needless to say, I was floored and impressed; my wife/KH is usually very docile, and I’ve never seen this side of her before. Part of me is extremely turned on by this behavior.
I called her during lunch break and we talked for a few minutes about the texts and how she felt. Being the guy that I am, I wasn’t seeing her perspective… well… was kind of an ass about it all to the point of hanging up. In hindsight, that really was the wrong thing to do. I found out half an hour later when she finally answered to tell me my release date is now April 2nd. I apologized for being rude and promised it wouldn’t happen again. She accepted.
We discussed that when I get home, I’ll need to remove the CB2K to clean it, and then SHE will clean both it and me because she doesn’t want me touching myself at all. Damn, that really sucks; I miss my “buddy,” but I miss my wife more. Be careful what you ask for.