What are the psychological and physical stages of orgasm denial for you?

After experimenting with being in chastity and keeping my new cage on for most of the day, I haven’t had a complete orgasm in four days. Yesterday gave me a ruined release, but it didn’t quell any of my urges. By today, day 4, my cock is extremely sensitive and stiffens at even the slightest naughty thought. When I stepped out of the shower, my wife held it and performed oral sex for about twenty seconds until it was rock hard. She paused and remarked that “that’s enough; it looks like putting your cage back on will be difficult right now.” A man who used to self-pleasure nearly every day is beginning to feel that sexual frustration. I assume even if she gave me another ruined release, the tension would persist until I achieve a full one. I’m curious what others in chastity felt during their initial days, weeks, and months without a complete climax? Does it drive you mad with anxiety?