I have tried both knowing and not knowing when I climax. Not knowing works well for shorter denial periods, but with an orgasm coming around every four months, I prefer to know the approximate window. It makes handling it much easier because I can anticipate when it will happen. When I am left in the dark as the months go by, anxiety sets in since I never quite know if or when I will cum.
So next year, I aim for about three orgasms spaced roughly four months apart, which lines up almost perfectly with our anniversary, Valentine’s Day, and my birthday. However, they might not land exactly on those days. My wife enjoys keeping a bit of mystery involved. She loves it when I am expecting one and she edges me, telling me to lock up again so she can let me cum at another time. For example, in the last three years, I have never had an orgasm right on those dates; it always happens slightly earlier or later. So this approximate approach seems to work for us because essentially we are looking at just a few orgasms per month.
How about you? Do you prefer having a timeframe, and if so, do you lean toward long-term denial measured in months?