And what’s the median you’ve gone between them? My wife, while discussing that she didn’t want the next time out to be too soon, asked what’s the longest anyone has gone between orgasms (I have a feeling I’m looking at longer spells between releases). So… what is it for each of you? As for me, first time out was after 12 days and it’s looking like the 2nd time out will be after 3+ weeks. Exquisite beautiful torture.
34 days is the longest. We wanted to go for six weeks until my 1st anniversary under her orgasm control, but she needed to travel away over that time period, and she didn't want me to be sad. She really is sweet. I went another 12 days after that explosive event. I don't know my median, but my journal tells me my mean time between orgasms is one every 4 days since December 12, 2013. I was really surprised by how generous she's been. Two a week sounds like a lot, especially when you read these forums, but I'm always wanting more. She's doing more ruined and minimized orgasms lately.:) We have no schedule, so it's up to her. Yes, that 2-3 week mark feels amazing. I didn't want to stop!
If long lockups without release intimidate you, this is probably the wrong place to ask. Some of the guys on here have gone very, very long. I was averaging 3-4 weeks, then we had a stretch of a few weeks where it was twice per week. We're going to monthly releases now. I was crabby and moody as all get out in that little span of frequent orgasms. After a week of lockup I'm already doing much better.