I believe we’re just past the six-week point in our chastity journey. Things have been mostly good until last night, when my wife gave me my first genuine tease and denial. It wasn’t really planned out, which might be why it hit me so hard—perhaps I simply hadn’t prepared myself mentally.
We had intended to have regular PIV intercourse, but after she took off her panties, we found out she was dealing with a yeast infection. That meant no PIV for us that night. Instead, we showered together. She got me pretty worked up during the shower, and when I started going soft while drying off, she had me lock myself up.
I didn’t mind it at first. But my head and body felt like they were expecting more action. We went to bed, but I spent most of the night with a strong erection (or what passes for one while locked). By 5:00 AM, I was losing my mind. I woke her up and asked for a hand job. She was a bit annoyed at being disturbed, but she let me out and helped me finish.
My question to those of you with more experience in chastity is: how do we prevent this? I loved the initial denial phase, but staying awake all night takes its toll. What helps your body settle down after a tease and denial so you can sleep through the rest of it?