Hello. I’ve had a long-standing fascination with chastity, denial, and ruined orgasms, but really started exploring it about twelve months ago. Around the time I first wore my chastity cage, I noticed erectile dysfunction kicking in during encounters with women. At one point, I was taking antidepressants so I assumed that was to blame. They prescribed trial doses of Cialis and Viagra for me. Both helped somewhat, though each had their own downsides. My attractive Asian girlfriend almost ended things because of my ED. After we split up, I returned to chastity play. When I started dating again, the ED reappeared. What is going on? Eventually, I found a partner who enjoys playing with me in chastity, and yet… there it was again: ED. Honestly, I think spending time locked has impacted my mind or body’s ability to get erect with a real woman.
I’ve been out of the cage for a few weeks now. My morning wood is back, as are spontaneous erections, and I even managed four orgasms from her in one session before finishing myself. It seems like chastity play might be hurting me.
Does anyone else deal with this? I want to keep doing on-and-off periods of chastity without paying such a high price.