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Which material should I pick for a first cage?

firstcagejitters · 13 Sep 2026 · 2 replies

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firstcagejitters Newcomer Thread starter
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13 Sep 2026 #1

Shopping for my first cage and the material choice is doing my head in. Silicone, plastic, stainless, they all have people swearing by them.

I want something forgiving to learn on, easy to clean, and not stupidly expensive in case this turns out not to be for me. Weight and how it sits under clothes matter too, since I might wear it out of the house. What did you start with, and would you pick the same again knowing what you know now?

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14 Sep 2026 #2

Start with a lightweight one, silicone or a good plastic. Forgiving to learn on, cheap enough that a wrong size is not a disaster, and comfortable for longer wear. Metal is lovely but heavier and less forgiving on fit, so most people move to it once they know their measurements, not before.

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For wearing out and about, lighter and non metal is your friend, both for comfort and for not setting off a very awkward moment at airport security. I learned on plastic, moved to metal much later, and would do it in that same order again.

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