Introductions discussion

I’ve been part of this community for quite a while, though I haven’t posted much, particularly in recent years. My Wife and i have tried chastity intermittently over the ages but never stayed locked up longer than a few days to a week before being out again for extended stretches. Many years ago we embarked on a D/S dynamic after 15 years of traditional marriage. The beginning was actually cuckolding, which rapidly evolved into a Femdom arrangement. This journey has had its share of halts and breaks along the way too. Our first contraption was a CB-3000; it worked well initially but as others know, it’s generally a low-quality piece prone to breaking and lacking comfort. We then bought a CB-2000 which was much better than the 3000 despite being an older model. Unfortunately it suffered similar problems so when it broke, off it went to the trash. As life often goes, I was browsing eBay without really looking for anything but thought why not check out what’s available now. I found this piece of equipment. The price ($40.00) seemed right so I decided to buy it, even if it was just for weekend play sessions like some other devices. It turned out to be the ideal chastity cage!! Very comfortable day and night, low profile and discreet when dressed up. So far best of all, it’s the only device that doesn’t randomly slip off unlike the CB series. Shaving isn’t simple but doable, and i have kept my completely shaved gentials while wearing the contraption. Anyway, i shared this background to lead into what i really wanted to discuss. We had been using the new cage for occasional weekends occasionally, thinking it was just a playtime tool like previous ones when she felt like it. On Dec 8th 2012 i acted “cheeky” as she puts it and placed my hand under her shirt while she looked over my shoulder at us checking what movies were on that evening. I teased, pretending to touch the bare breast hanging delightfully beneath her sweater. She warned me not to but i persisted. As i moved my hand without intending a full touch, i accidentally brushed against her nipple which was dangling freely too. I pulled back quickly as if burned by fire. I knew better and was just teasing both Her and myself. Once contact happened, i realized what was coming. She scolded me and i thought maybe that would be the end of it. After choosing a film to watch, i had to change clothes for going out. That’s when she told me to put on the new cage too.. I was actually pleased because it seemed we were “playing” the chastity game this weekend. It seems her view on chastity has shifted though. As of Jan 2, 2012 i will have been locked up for nearly a month continuously. We chat about my predicament and She gives no hints when release might come. I’ve never stayed locked so long nor denied myself the chance to jerk off for such an extended period. I feel mixed emotions; i genuinely want out and some relief, yet at the same time i wish to remain confined for Her and savor the frustration and confinement. If released, i hope only for a quick cum then straight back into the device. Even now as i write this, arousal is rising from just thinking about it. My hopes are that this becomes our new normal pattern perhaps leading toward longer periods of confining. As many know here, opposing “wants and desires” drive chastity dynamics. The first thing to disappear on us starting down this road was blowjobs for me. i originally told my Wife i felt a Domme shouldn’t suck her submissive’s cock. Then over the years sexual intercourse reduced until one day that option vanished too. During all of this, intimate touching remained strictly permission-based. We have both loved how things progressed. Now it appears the last remaining sexual pleasure granted to me, masturbation, is also being restricted. I find this exciting and frustrating but cannot help hoping this evolution continues.​