Hi everyone, I’m curious to know if my chastity journey is typical. I’ve loved the idea of femdom and being in a female-led relationship for as long as I can recall—I started reading femdom stories around age 12—but I haven’t really gotten to live it yet. In November, I bought a cb6000 cage and kept it on continuously for eight days, totaling ten days without orgasm. I’ve noticed quite a few shifts in how I feel, and I’d love to hear if others go through the same things or if it’s just me.
My sleep improved dramatically. It wasn’t instant; by night three, however, I was drifting off fast and waking up before my alarm feeling truly rested. Usually, mornings are a struggle for me, but after several days in the cage, I started getting out of bed each morning ready to tackle whatever came next.
I also felt much more self-assured and sociable. While shy and passive usually describe me well, those traits shifted noticeably after a couple of days. By day seven without an orgasm, my confidence had spiked significantly. This wasn’t just in my mind; several people mentioned that I looked better and carried myself with more poise.
Naturally, I was very sexually charged and leaking almost all the time, but overall those ten days felt better than any period before or since then. The main downside was that constant leakage made it nearly impossible to keep the cage’s interior dry, which eventually caused some sores.
Given these great benefits plus the feeling that wearing the device is just right for me, I figured I’d stick with it. Yet, after that first experience, I haven’t worn it again since. My excuse has been that “it seems pointless to stay deprived when sexual frustration won’t be channeled into giving pleasure to someone else,” but I’m not entirely convinced anymore.
Have you all noticed similar perks and hurdles in sticking with it after such a positive start? Are these experiences common?