Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

“Like I’ve mentioned in my intro, I’m a fit and active college student. Recently I’ve had to stay unlocked because I can’t wear my device to the gym since it’s too bulky and noticeable. Plus, I practice Jiu Jitsu and can’t take it for sessions. Does anyone have experience doing contact or very active sports while locked? Would a softer, lighter, maybe even squishy cage work better (silicone)?

It matters greatly to my girlfriend that we figure this out because without staying locked up, I’ve been masturbating 3-5 times daily and haven’t been focusing on her.

Thanks for any advice!”