My wife and I spent last weekend in “play mode.” It began with me performing oral on her, which usually results in an orgasm for her ninety percent of the time. That didn’t happen that evening though, so we switched to using her rabbit vibrator, yet she still couldn’t reach climax; it just wasn’t our night. Afterwards, she volunteered to give me a hand job, and I accepted but made it clear that fairness meant she had to stop right before my climax so I would endure the same frustration as she did. Once that was done, she locked me in my cage, and we cuddled up for bed.
Here is where things get interesting: while snuggling, I suggested that since my performance was lacking, I should be punished by having orgasms denied until she collects a certain number over time. She agreed to set the target at five before I can have any of my own. However, I needed an incentive not to masturbate on days when she isn’t keeping me locked (I’ll explain later) or to avoid climaxing during her play sessions. While hand jobs, blowjobs, and sex are still allowed for me, no orgasms are permitted. She couldn’t think of a good penalty, so I proposed that she pick one of my possessions; if I break the rule and orgasm before she hits five, she can sell it and keep the cash for herself. I expected her to choose something small around the house, but instead she said, “Your BMW.” (It’s our fun weekend summer car). Since I came up with the idea, I agreed. The next morning, we both signed a contract that I drafted, and I handed over the title to the vehicle while she secured both documents in her safe.
Now, regarding why there are days when I am free: like many couples, my wife and I lead busy lives involving work travel and raising kids. Because I work from home, I stay locked during those times and on weekends. However, when I travel for business or visit clients, she prefers not to have me caged, so I am essentially free up until now without practicing orgasm denial while out of the cage. Previously, masturbating was fine with no penalty, but under this new arrangement, there is a significant consequence if I do.