Novices and newbies discussion

My wife and I don’t engage in much anal activity—I wear a small jeweled butt plug for about two hours each month. During Locktober, my Key Holder (who isn’t my wife) has had me wearing a butt plug for four hours daily—two hours during morning meditation and chores, and another two at night. The KH ordered a Hush so they could control it remotely; the Hush is bigger than what I used previously. During our Park Walk yesterday, I mentioned to my wife that using lotion was getting messy and I found the anal process quite repulsive. She gave me Astro Glide to try this morning, which made a HUGE difference. It’s much easier to insert and not nearly as gross when removed. Just a general shout-out for using lube (I see it all the time now, but didn’t really grasp why before)…