I am curious. Who decided to use the cage, the man or the (future) keyholder? My mistress brought the idea into the bedroom.
I have always been into orgasm control/denial. Due to some nerve damage, my orgasms are seldom pleasurable. Although delaying them for a week or longer helps regaining some pleasure but I still prefer the teasing without end. So we almost naturally evolved into some kind of tease and denial relationship which I really loved.
A few weeks ago my lovely mistress mentioned chastity cages. I have read about them, but I never thought about using them myself. Because I thought I had no need to be restrained. But because she really liked the idea, I was not able to resist her, so we ordered a simple keyless cage.
The problem with this one-size fits all cheap cage is that they aren’t one size fits all, so we could use it for about 30 minutes until it turned into a blood vessel crushing ball murdering device. Fun for some, but not our kink. So we ordered a slightly less cheap (sorry we just bought a house, money is a bit tight) hard plastic cage with larger rings. And we started to play with it,
After a few days, I hated it. And we had a little talk. I thought it was only for locktober, but my mistress likes it too much so she wants me caged as long as she wishes so I had a little panic attack. But she calmed me down, and convinced me to continue. Now, I’m still not fond of the cage, but I proudly wear it (for her eyes only) because it pleases my mistress and that is the best feeling in the world. She even found better and more frustrating ways to tease me, so I am the luckiest husband in the universe.