Novices and newbies discussion

I’ve noticed on this site that most folks struggle with wearing the device while sleeping, and I’m not sure why. For me, nighttime is actually the best time to wear it. It doesn’t irritate or rub against my skin, feeling both comfortable and secure. Right now, I’m sporting a stainless steel spiked cage in bed because my wife is putting me through erection aversion therapy, which feels great knowing she’s controlling those responses. Nocturnal erections are especially handled well by the sharp spikes, delivering a biting yet exquisite pain that effectively discourages unwanted movement. I really appreciate being submissive to her will. She mentioned starting more intense ‘aversion’ work where she’ll tease me into servicing her orally while still in the spiked cage. Plus, she allows me to watch porn during this period to help with my treatment.