I’ve been fascinated by chastity for a few years now. I’ve tried self-locking with various cages, but when I held the keys myself, it never lasted long. That’s partly why I wanted my wife to take over as key holder. The fantasy of surrendering control over that aspect of my life felt huge. Still, bringing up such a topic with someone you love is tricky; the fear of rejection or worse makes it daunting. My wife is strong—she leads a team at work and has learned to dial back her leadership when she’s home. We are very affectionate and spend all our downtime together, whether doing chores or socializing.
One evening, after getting home, we were both slightly drunk. She asked me to share something I’d never told her before. So I did: chastity turns me on. I showed her photos of different cages and some websites online.
The next day passed without a word about it. I didn’t want to press the issue again because I assumed it wasn’t really her thing, so life carried on as usual.
A few months later, after having had several glasses of wine and feeling tipsy, she led me upstairs to the bedroom. She made me lie down and restrained me—which isn’t the first time she’s done that. Then she went to the closet and pulled out a bag. Before I knew it, I was wearing a proper chastity belt; I couldn’t even see myself anymore. Afterward, she took the key and attached it to her necklace where it rests between her breasts. Just like that, she set me free with the words: “You wanted this.”
The next day back at work, by the time I got home, my resolve was gone. All I wanted to do was put my feet up and relax. We ate supper, cleaned up, and were about to sit down when she said, “Before you sit, I want you to clean out the cat box.” It’s not something I enjoy and usually find excuses to avoid, but I sat there anyway since I didn’t feel like doing it right then. She reached in, pulled out the key so I could see it clearly, and told me to go do it now. Realizing this wasn’t a suggestion, I complied, understanding that she was now holding all the power—but honestly, I kind of asked for it.
I’ll keep you posted on how things develop.