Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

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Stress led I believe. Was going so well. I removed his cage and allowed him to climax on 2/8. He hasn't been in it since. He said there is too much going on and he isn't in the right frame of mind.
I took the key from my neck yesterday, he hasn't noticed. Just seems silly wearing it when chastity etc isn't on the table at the moment.
I miss it already. I don't want to push it as there is a heck of a lot going on; however I want him back in it again without it causing damage to our relationship.
I don't know how to approach the subject with him at the moment, any advice gratefully accepted.

member_5b92ce0ed6 · Answer

I've been in a similar situation and in hindsight wished my keyholder absolutely just insisted I remained locked and took control. Was I trying my luck to remain unlocked probably.

member_cc13e37a20 · Answer

How long did you stay unlocked for?
Initially his excuse was that he needed shearing.
He wanted chastity, he begged for it. He begged me to take control.
I spent money on a proper under bed restraint system /ball gag etc and its unused.
I don't want these couple of weeks to become months

member_cc13e37a20 · Answer

I'll wait for the right moment and mention it.
Just conscious that he has a lot on at the moment with work and in private life.

member_5b92ce0ed6 · Answer

A couple of weeks, I got a text saying you will be locked tonight. She said I'm very different unlocked and prefers me locked. I waited for her to take control back

member_3b74dc9061 · Answer

You say he has a lot on his plate, but has he had time for ‘relations’ with you? If he’s even hinted at lovemaking, then you should feel free to request a return to chastity. And as stated by another, we men enjoy expectations and demands. At least attempt to take back control. It’s a cage, a piece of jewelry. Not an 80 lb rucksack for him to carry around. JMO. Good luck.

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