Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi everyone. I’ve been around here for a while and just starting experimenting with chastity. My wife is definitely intrigued and we are close to ordering a jailbird from MM. However we are experiencing a few one time financial set backs (car repair, phone broken, etc) that are threatening the cage be put off and while I accept financial responsibility I don’t want this to delayed too much:( To help it’s chances I wanted to ask about people experiences about the emotional changes you had—both personal and interpersonal—when you got your chastity device? Did it help your emotional relationship? Did it change the dynamics behind your relationship OTHER than the obvious ways:P How does it make you closer with your partner (if they are the key holder or not) When I looked up this topic I found threads tangentially talking abut this point but none with it as the focus. Could anyone please describe their experience with the emotional changes that have come up when caged?