My wife and I have been running a sort of female-led dynamic with the honor system and orgasm denial for about two years now. She is pretty traditional and has previously not wanted me to wear a cage, nor even keep one in our home. We kind of drifted off course over the last couple of months; I was masturbating often and being quite difficult toward her. Eventually we had a talk where I confessed that I had been masturbating and explained how much it bothered me to treat her as I did.
She mentioned she missed all the attention and the loving way I treated her when I was denied. I told her it’s hard for me and that I need her assistance. She agreed to take on a more commanding role and allow me to be her servant. This is a huge step for her, as she has never wanted to be dominant because she felt it came across as mean.
She also consented to let me wear the cage while doing household chores. The other day I accidentally walked into the bathroom and caught her getting ready for the shower; she gave me a little display of affection. Naturally, being so aroused, I went down on her before even cleaning up the kitchen. When she saw what I had done, she joked about whether or not I was wearing my cage.
I hope this is the start of something good that I have been waiting for.