Should a Lady happen to be reading this and even more miraculously, find herself in Scotland, I invite you to continue.
I realize my odds of hitting the lottery are slim, but I am still giving it my best shot!
I identify as predominantly submissive. I am real, honest, open-minded, and genuine. Crucially, I am fully male—no sissy, cuck, or doormat here. Like any other man, I have sexual needs which I intend to fulfill rather than deny or suppress; I just want them met at the right time and in the proper manner under the guidance of a Dominant Lady.
I need someone whose mindset aligns with mine, who views male chastity as an integral part of a relationship—one aspect of a broader dynamic where She holds firm control. Someone I can respect and willingly submit to daily with absolute confidence. A Lady who understands that life goes on and sometimes both submission and chastity must step aside, trusting enough to let this happen while knowing I will honor her wishes and return to Her control as soon as circumstances permit.
I am looking for someone with whom I can forge a genuine, long-term bond offering mental, physical, and emotional satisfaction. I am NOT simply hunting for a keyholder. She needs to be an active participant, a leader who is confident and secure in herself. She should know what she wants and how to achieve it—realistic, compassionate, understanding, yet firm when required.
In return, you receive a single, reasonably sane, solvent, articulate, employed man ready and willing to stand by your side and submit with pride. I will be honest, faithful, compliant, and eager. I am open to exploring new experiences both within the BDSM community and sexually, though mutual trust must come first.
Regarding chastity itself: I have reasonable experience, having previously worn a CS-100 belt for six full months without any release aside from bi-weekly cleaning. I have also spent time in Lancelot devices, HT V2 models, and others. The how, when, if, and duration of my locking are not up to me; you will feel no pressure regarding these details.
Let me stress again: I do NOT want a keyholder; I seek a Partner, a relationship, and a companion for life beyond just the bedroom. I know maintaining such a connection takes effort, particularly from the Lady’s side, so my expectations are realistic. Life is not a porn film—kinky play, chastity, and teasing aren’t always suitable, desired, or needed. For this to succeed, our relationship must thrive without those kinky elements just as well as it does with them.