My wife and I have dabbled in chastity off and on for about eight years, but it’s always felt more like a sex toy than anything else. We’d lock up for a few hours, an overnight stay, or maybe just the weekend, mostly as part of foreplay with long breaks—sometimes months—in between. Recently though, our sexual activity has dropped because she is dead set on me getting a vasectomy. We’re both 40 and have kids; we hate condoms. She refuses to take the pill, which I completely understand. My insurance doesn’t cover it, so I’ve been dragging my feet for nearly a year about booking the appointment since it costs a pretty penny.
So, sex happens less often because she is petrified of pregnancy, and neither of us has great self-control. Once we start going at it with oral or other things, she wants my hard dick inside her, even though she only gets clitoral orgasms. I’ve always been decent at pulling out. We got by using that method through most of our thirties, but now the risk causes her too much anxiety because having another child is an absolute no-go.
For the last couple of months, she texts me once or twice during my workday to remind me to “make the call.” She did this on Monday morning and I jokingly replied that maybe she should just lock me up until I get fixed. Her response was simply, “that’s a good idea…”
I wasn’t sure if she’d remember the text or actually go through with it—it felt like a coin toss in my head. Well, heads won; she remembered. That night in bed, she told me to put on my cage and perform oral for her. I playfully protested but did as asked. She climaxed twice before saying goodnight. Tuesday was mostly oral again, and while wearing a strap-on, I used the wand during intercourse with her. Wednesday saw her fall asleep quickly. Last night, she had me finger fuck her while using the wand simultaneously. It’s Friday now and I’m still locked up. Four days is my old record. The issue is that she has no intention of unlocking me yet. My sex drive is huge; for 25 years, I’ve been jerking off once or twice a day on top of any partner sex. I’m already struggling and leaking all day.
She mentioned that I still need to call the doctor, but even after that procedure, she wants to keep this setup going. She said, “I really forget how much this benefits me. Not this time.”
It’s only day five, so it feels definitely different right now. I think I’ll be begging for pegging within a week.