I’ve spent two decades in the BDSM scene as a dominant. My wife recently realized she’s got sadistic tendencies and loves having control, which helps explain some of our marital hiccups over time. I hadn’t given much thought to male chastity before; I’d managed orgasm control for my subs/slaves, but never really considered it for myself. She showed me a cage while browsing CBT toys online, and we started talking about how often I masturbate—three or four times daily. So, I decided to give it a shot, and here I am after buying three other cages before finally finding one that fits well.
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Welcome. Chastity / OD isn't an *inherently* submissive kink; enjoying it doesn't automatically label you as submissive. My wife and I practice this dynamic (she prefers that I wear a device), yet we're largely vanilla otherwise. She actually compares it to caging or harnessing a wild beast, similar to how young women seem captivated by horses. Anyway, over the years I've noticed other doms/tops opting for chastity because they enjoy the built-up sensation. Perhaps that resonates with your current situation.
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