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member_055672f138 · 2026-09-13T14:03:02.000Z · 4 replies

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2026-09-13T14:03:02.000Z #1

I began living in chastity on June 4th and my keyholder was eager to explore my kinks, but when it comes to pleasing her she prefers that I cum inside her. That seemed to be her main motivation for getting me the device. I set up an arrangement where I’ll stay locked for a week starting today. After that period, I will need to cum in her. I really enjoy how I feel after going several days without an orgasm. Keeping my penis restrained has helped me discover other ways to get pleasure. I give my mistress massages and foot rubs every day, I perform oral on her, kiss her feet, cuddle or hold her, and worship her like a goddess. So…, what I’m wondering is what are some alternatives to PIV that I could use to please her without having my cock unlocked?

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2026-09-13T19:12:07.899Z #2

You should try a penis sleeve. It adds girth and length which should satisfy her need for penetration while you experience nothing but denial. My keyholder was hesitant about one until she gave it a go. The extra thickness really blew her away.

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2026-09-14T07:06:26.758Z #3

Mrs Chaste is perfectly fine with me not cumming at all! As long as she gets her orgasms that's what counts for her. She absolutely loves the mix of tongue, vibrator and strap-on play. Especially when I make sure to keep eye contact while she reaches her final orgasm!

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2026-09-14T16:38:55.496Z #4

Focus on finding ways to please her more than just PIV sex. If you can find something that is better and doesn't require unlocking then she won't mind as much about keeping your cock shut. Nobody can tell you for certain how to do this perfectly because different women respond differently to different things. Some women need penetration so it becomes a matter of finding the perfect dildo or method of numbing. Others prefer clitoral stimulation so you'll want to look into a vibrator or specific attachment. Some react best with g-spot stimulation so you'll need to figure out how to target that spot effectively. You just have to experiment.

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2026-09-15T05:09:04.322Z #5

> luckyhubby83 said: > Try a penis sleeve. It adds girth and length which should satisfy her need for penetration while you experience nothing but denial. > My keyholder was hesitant about one until she gave it a go. The extra thickness really blew her away > Click to expand... That is definitely something I'll look into getting. I mentioned the idea and showed my girlfriend a picture of one. She is also a bit leery but says she's willing to give it a try. Thanks for the suggestion.

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