…in a long-term partnership. So, I’ve been wearing my cage for about 18 months now, with my wife of 37 years acting as KH. Although she was initially a bit unsure, she has since taken to chastity and key holding with enjoyment. We adopted this lifestyle to rekindle our fading sexual connection, and it has truly made a significant positive impact.
Outside the bedroom, though, we remain quite traditional in both relationship dynamics and daily life. Most of our friends and family are unaware that I’m locked up, and many would be surprised if they knew. We have stayed completely monogamous for 37 years. Then recently, this occurred:
I was stimulating her in bed using my hand and a vibrator. She reached climax, although it took much longer than normal, and I grew somewhat tired. I apologized for not performing better, and she said, “Oh, no, it’s nothing you did. I just feel like I’ve missed having a real cock inside me.”
She decided shortly after my locking up that we would stop penetrative sex (PIV). Occasionally, I am permitted to unlock and masturbate in front of her (which is her favorite), or rarely, she gives me a hand job or blowjob. This new comment made me curious. I’ve never been particularly large, and now, between aging, weight gain, medications, and lack of use, it seems even smaller than before. (see my photos). She delivered all 6 (yes, it might be small, but it was potent back then, LOL) of our children vaginally, so her vaginal canal is quite relaxed. For several years now, she hasn’t really been able to feel me inside her during intercourse. Now that I’ve been locked for a while, I ejaculate at the slightest trigger, often before becoming fully erect. So there’s no way I can satisfy her via PIV anymore. I even told her I’d still be willing to try. She replied, “No, that’s fine. I understand.”
She hasn’t brought up the idea of another man for sex yet. But it makes me wonder if she has considered it. She actually reads here regularly but isn’t a member herself, so she might see this thread. What do you all think?