Hi everyone! Thanks for running such a fantastic site:) I finally surrendered and got myself a cage (photos to come). My Keyholder is an old dominant friend who’s going to be training me. There’s plenty of excitement ahead! The first day inside was definitely thrilling. I’m using what you could call an “affordable” CB-600. I really like how it feels, and my KH had me leaking right on the first day. Interestingly enough, I actually dozed off with it in place and slept well overnight without any problems… EXCEPT!!! Lol.
I know I’m a bit plump, and people tend to notice more around girth than length. The CB worked fine for me, but unfortunately, my shaft gets easily excited. Even after finding a comfortable fit, my flaccid length seems much shorter than when I measured it or expected; as I settle in, the tip rests about halfway down the tube (I did mess up the assembly on day one, but it didn’t hurt—even while peeing was fine and cleaning was easy). When arousal hits, I often push all the way to the end of the device, which causes some strain (so maybe a larger circumference around the shaft is needed?). Despite that, I enjoy the sensation. However, I accidentally broke the 50mm ring -_- so I switched down to the 45mm one for today. It was still comfortable while out and about, but now it doesn’t feel as enjoyable (I do like the denial and my KH’s control over me), plus there is noticeable pressure. So definitely an ergonomic choice with a 50mm ring. Perhaps next time I’ll try a shorter shaft length and slightly wider tube circumference with less gap? (I went for the largest one available; I have some low hangers, so it naturally sits forward haha). I’ve always known myself to be more of a grower, but I’m not sure if that’s due to blood flow.
Any advice would be great!!! Eager to become part of this community:) Thinking about picking up the Chaiste Bird 304 next, but is it the same diameter as the CB? Haha, I’m a bit confused here and can’t even masturbate >_< oh boy, this is going to be interesting.