So two days ago my keyholder and girlfriend finished up her thesis work, so we decided to catch up since she’d been swamped with her schedule. She’s been incredibly patient with me and had taken me into a new long-term arrangement about a month back: 60 days in the cage using one caged o with her wand. The night we caught up, I took her out for a fancy dinner and noticed she was wearing my cage keys around her neck alongside her pendant. We had a lovely evening before heading to my place, where I gave her a couple of oral sessions. During that time, I realized I wasn’t getting hard while going down on her, which amused her enough that after 60 days, she finally decided to take the cage off. She had just started stroking me to get me hard for a PIV when, within seconds of her touch, I came in her hands without any real buildup or orgasmic feeling. It felt like the floor shook beneath my feet. In the back of my mind, I could sense she wasn’t entirely happy about it either. I’ve been uncaged for the last 24 hours now; it feels weird, but I’m also worried about my erection and ability to hold off. Does anyone have similar experiences or suggestions?
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It's normal to have a weird reaction after a long term. It affects guys differently; some will struggle getting hard right away, some will experience a very incomplete orgasm, and others might not be able to climax at all. It varies. You've just had two months with no physical stimulation. I'd say give yourself a few days unlocked, have a couple of wanks, and you'll return to normal. Just remember that most of sex is mental, so try not to overthink it or worry too much, because otherwise, you'll just get caught in a loop.
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