Hi there. I’m Phebusa. English is still a bit tricky for me, though I do work on it regularly, and I tend to be quite shy. I plan to share my path toward becoming more assertive as a woman here in this thread. To be honest, I struggle to see the point of wearing a cage and undergoing chastity. Please feel free to leave your thoughts below.
The device can serve whatever purpose you choose—or even no purpose at all. My wife appreciates it because once I've been locked up for a few months, my desperation starts to rise. She realizes that during those times of neediness, I am unable to coerce her into doing things against her will. Even when I plead with her, the physical restraint stops me from overstepping what she is willing to allow. Perhaps you feel it's not crucial or necessary for your situation. If that's true, just let your husband know that you aren't fond of it.