Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

> Casemagnum72 said: > My wife told me those words this morning. She's making an attempt to accept my chastity fetish. I've been self-locking for around 10 months now. She's known about it for six months, but only recently has she seen me wearing it more often in front of her while we're nude and getting ready for bed. It is a style with open bars from Amazon. She appreciates my reason for wanting to wear one, though she finds the look unattractive; I wasn't sure what to say since I was rushing out the door. > Does anyone else have a wife who doesn't really want to participate and thinks cock cages are ugly? Any advice? > Click to expand... Have her choose a cage with you and let her make the final call. I began with a Holy Trainer v2, wearing it for about six months until my wife decided she didn't like how it looked. After that, I switched to steel and bought two more models that she absolutely adores; I've mostly retired one because of comfort issues. She views it as jewelry and actually prefers seeing me in the cage. So if I were you, sit down with her to discover exactly what bothers her about its appearance and proceed from there. Amazon, eBay, and DHgate offer excellent affordable choices.