I recently had my frenum pierced with the goal of permanent lock up, unless my wife decides to take it off for playtime. We’ve been experimenting with locked wear in a Holy Trainer for about a year now, with the longest stretch reaching three months. Now we are prepared to go fully permanent and have chosen the Bijou because it is nearly impossible to remove and doesn’t trap the balls.
Here are my questions: Regarding the piercing: I had mine done at 12 gauge. What size do you recommend for the final fitting in the device? Is 12g enough, or should I stretch it wider? Will a larger gauge change how sensitive I am? Does anyone have experience measuring specifically for this cage?