Fingers crossed! I launched our chastity journey on Jan 29, 2018 (it was my idea). It took about five to six months for me to fully adjust and understand the power of those two small keys. Since last summer, she has kept me locked in intervals ranging from one to three weeks. Her goal was to curb my masturbation addiction and shift me down from my usual aggressive state to a more submissive posture, allowing her to easily manage and maintain the obedience I owe her. She rarely permits release (only twice since we began), explaining that I don’t need to cum because it softens my erection during intercourse and fuels both aggression and disobedience in me. Teasing isn’t common; she treats it as a pleasant reward for not ejaculating or engaging in sex. She enjoys keeping me full of seed while watching me squirm, knowing I often contribute to the mess myself. Those are our fundamentals: no extreme BDSM from her.
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Interesting read. My wife and I began in January with a more relaxed approach. I have stopped masturbating entirely, limiting my releases to PIV intercourse or an occasional blowjob roughly every three months if the timing is right. She has embraced loving our sex as much as possible, often suggesting we remove the device only for us to put it back on immediately after. She is clearly enjoying the dynamic games we are playing currently.
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