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member_40f52c675c · 2026-09-12T15:22:45.000Z · 3 replies

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2026-09-12T15:22:45.000Z #1

Hello everyone, I picked up a device, but I feel it might be too big for me. My erect length is about 3.75 inches and my flaccid size hovers around 1 to 1.5 inches at times. Does this mean I should look for a device that suits my smaller state?\nI’d appreciate any suggestions on which model to get..

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2026-09-12T21:36:51.720Z #2

After years of avoiding it, I’ve realized that the tighter fit really works best for controlling erections, preventing random leaks, and managing ejaculation—whether you’re dealing with a minor accidental leak or having your orgasm ruined. Just pay close attention to the A-ring (base ring) size if yours needs one. You don’t want something turning black and falling off unexpectedly... As for choosing a device... give some of the cheaper Chinese options a try. Some are direct copies or very similar; find a style you like, and then see if there’s an original version nearby with slightly better quality. If your partner is involved, make sure to get her input on how they look. Unless she has trouble expressing herself, if she thinks it looks bad... then it IS ugly, so avoid those ones. Best of luck

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2026-09-14T08:20:58.440Z #3

What @filltee mentioned is spot on. You don’t want extra room to grow into, so a cage measuring about 1-1.5” in length is ideal. I’m in the same situation and found a device from dhgate that I wear now. It’s a metal construction with bars spiraling outwards, secured by a screw mechanism rather than a traditional lock. My initial base ring was tighter, but it caused issues with gap distance and pain during erections. Now I use a larger ring; many here might consider it too large, but it works perfectly for me. I’ve invested quite a bit in brand-name devices (like Vice and Bon4), but personally prefer the fit, feel, and ease of putting on/off that this dhgate cage offers.

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2026-09-14T20:11:10.920Z #4

I would recommend a holy trainer Nano.

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