Female led relationships discussion

It seems you are a "service top" for her, which is something I have definitely done. You can view it as part of the spectrum of erotic services available to her.

I would argue there is no issue with a switch being dominant one day and happily chaste the next, or even enjoying topping someone while currently in chastity. There isn't a single "correct" way to engage in chastity play; if it makes both of you happy and remains sensible, it is almost certainly fine. Consider that you wish to give your lady so many orgasms she becomes completely spent and unable to accept more, because doing so brings you happiness and a sense of capability? Perhaps you enjoy penetrating her thoroughly while remaining ready and eager for another round later on? Maybe you like fucking with wild abandon, giving maximum pleasure, and knowing you cannot come helps you focus entirely on her needs rather than chasing your own release? Whatever the reason, I see no problem in taking charge and doing what benefits both of you, even if you are currently chaste. Yes, you might feel unusual by common standards. But you are not alone; for instance, some men report orgasming from fucking their partners with a strapon while still wearing chastity devices themselves. So do not worry about being different from other guys into chastity; be happy that you have found what works well for your pair.

> your-caged-dog said: > I am placing this query in this category; I hope that is acceptable. > Although I am not inherently submissive, I also possess a dominant nature, yet she requires me to remain caged around the clock, and I go along with her wishes. > Once our session concludes, she returns me to the cage, reclaiming my sexual control from me. > The shifting between these roles feels somewhat paradoxical, leaving me puzzled at times.. > Does anyone else here share this experience? > Click to expand... My partner and I are both quite switchy. She is naturally submissive and usually dominant outside of the bedroom (and inside when appropriate). However, we have discovered that chastity and limiting my orgasms suits us perfectly. She feels more confident, while I feel more adoring, so we continue this way. There are definitely moments in bed when I am unlocked where I can sense her craving me to be rough with her, so I oblige.

> sandman9355 said: > Maybe you enjoy fucking her thoroughly > Click to expand... Less of the roughness please: )