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I crossed paths with my partner eleven years ago on a platform named InformedConsent, which was an excellent BDSM site before it unfortunately closed down:( After exchanging emails for several months, we decided to meet in person. I picked him up at a pub nearby since I was residing in the Peak District then. We talked for quite some time; my initial thought was that he was such a polite gentleman—handsome and already widowed. We headed out for lunch, discussing various topics ranging from vanilla subjects to dynamic ones. He drove me home, and as he departed, I asked him to return with me that Saturday evening if his schedule allowed. Saturday arrived, and I wore a black PVC dress paired with thigh-high boots, my long red hair dried quickly. I waited for his arrival while having him pour me wine and keeping him under my control as I chatted and sipped. I declared he was sentenced to receive ten strokes from each piece of equipment (thankfully not as many pieces then compared to now), totaling 140 strokes across the fourteen items. He adored my boots, thighs, and breasts before I dismissed him home with his device locked on. On Tuesday, there was a knock at my door revealing a courier carrying several large, heavy cardboard-wrapped parcels. He assisted me inside with them, then left as I closed the door. Inside the packages were instructions for assembling a St. Andrew’s Cross, pillories, and a spanking bench—all handcrafted from wood and painted black. It was my very first dungeon setup, and I was incredibly impressed that he had captured snippets of our pub conversation to make these dreams come true… I had once mentioned wanting my own dungeon. To think he constructed everything in just 4-5 days after we met… this man is definitely a keeper right❤️ Back then, I was a single Domme exploring the lifestyle. By the time I met my partner, I had been active as a Domme for six years. Within three months of meeting, we moved in together; I relocated to Lincolnshire and have spent eleven joyful years with him:). We’ve experienced more good times than bad, though the last two or three years have been challenging due to his health problems. Yet we remain steadfast… committed deeply even without being married, maintaining a D/s dynamic as much as possible. This photo shows his 24/7 collar that I gave him. [Image: CB5D8566-2C02-4EBD-9CB3-408F9A6D89EA.jpeg]