I’m skipping a lengthy introduction since I’ve technically been part of this community for years and have spent plenty of time lurking. My wife and I experimented with chastity many years ago; although we were both enthusiastic, it didn’t last because I wasn’t listening closely enough, constantly pushing her boundaries, and the complex scoring methods added to the confusion. A few months back, we revisited the topic and decided to try again. Thanks to improved communication, things are working out well this time around. I’ve been wearing a device for roughly 80 days now, with two release periods: one after 11 days in place, and another about 60 days later. I handle all the domestic duties, she manages me and our finances. I have £10 set aside for emergencies, but everything else requires her permission. We utilize an app named OurPact that allows her to lock my phone (leaving only dialing capability) if I fail to give her adequate attention or other requirements are not met. She also conducts a weekly review where I earn a performance rating out of 10. This is the part where we’d appreciate your advice and insights, provided you’re willing to share. She isn’t particularly keen on physical punishments like spanking or writing lines; instead, as mentioned earlier, she prefers taking away privileges when behavior slips. We are considering a system where my weekly score determines which privileges I keep up to that level. For example: 5 - No Smart Phone 4 - No Internet (laptop in house, smart TV etc) 3 - No TV remote privileges (cannot turn TV on or change the channel) 2 - No Hot Water (Cold Showers, No tea & Coffee etc) 1 - Lowest Score Possible I.e a weekly score of 4 would mean I get hot showers, TV, Internet (Via laptop in house), but no Smartphone. A score of 3 the following week would mean I would lose internet privileges. We have run out of ideas for privileges. We have smartphone, internet, tv, hot water, blanket not duvet as bedtime, orgasm for me….any other suggestions? Many thanks
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