Last night I was relaxing in the jacuzzi with my wife/HK. After about thirty minutes, I stepped out of the tub while keeping the ball trap engaged; it took some effort and discomfort to pull them free from the cage.
However, just as I sat down, the stainless steel cage (which has a decent amount of weight) slipped off due to gravity…
My wife isn’t keen on PA because she has her doubts for reasons unknown. But after seeing last night how insecure ball traps are when they pull out, if she truly accepts her role as KH, she might reconsider this security upgrade.
With the PA having so little skin between the piercing and urethra, does constant tugging stretch that tissue over time? Does it hurt during a tug or an erection? And regarding hygiene, is there extra maintenance required?