“Is chastity truly real if you can slip out from behind your device or cage, enjoy yourself, and then pop that little fellow back in? Personally, I don’t think so. I know there are other ways to bypass a device and escape, but if you can slip out and slide back in whenever you please, I wouldn’t call it chastity; it’s just self-control.
When I got the PA, the whole dynamic of my life changed. No more fooling myself into thinking my wife had me locked up under her thumb—the situation now is that I simply cannot get out when I want to for fun.
Once you hand over the keys and are secured in a sturdy device, escape becomes much harder. Cutting or grinding might be your only options unless you pick the lock (which I don’t know how to do).
Since cutting or grinding isn’t an option for me, chastity has become a real mental battle.
Just my two cents.