Thanks everyone for the details shared here. I’m not much of a writer, but I’ve read plenty and it was really useful. My wife wasn’t quite on board with Keyholding or anything S/M back in the day. For about 17 years now, I’ve been asking, hinting, or begging. … Long Time …
Over time, her panties started ending up in my drawer; I enjoy wearing them and she doesn’t mind much. Thanks to all the insights from this Forum, I convinced her that plastic cages were causing issues with long-term wear (anything over 30 minutes). The issue was simply poor fit. With that understanding, she agreed we needed a metal cage of the correct size. After a lengthy search, I purchased a used one from another member on the site.
I also picked up an extra basering (should have gone with one larger), and the cage was ready to go. She didn’t make me wait long before having it put on and locked in place. Naturally, once the snap closed, my immediate desire was for intercourse. That wasn’t quite happening; I could still rim her and bring her to ecstasy through licking.
The first night in the cage went okay, but by the next morning she let me lick her into ecstasy again—though this time she largely ignored me. During the day, the cage began pulling and rubbing hard against my scrotum, so by evening I had to take it out to let things relax a bit. My wife was quite unhappy with that interruption.
I got locked up again late the next morning, and now 36 hours later, no issues at all.
My tongue is certainly busy these days, and she’s beginning to reveal her sadistic side, which I love.
Now she hints that my wishes will come true if I continue servicing her properly.
Thanks again for the info. If you really want something, patience pays off.