A few weeks back I came up with a neat concept: Before my current relationship, I was already aware of chastity and digital keyholding services. While I hadn’t tried it myself, I kept in mind that these options were available now. The prospect of having a mistress hold the key for seven days without giving it back, while assigning me various duties, really appeals to me. Receiving kinky updates throughout the day, completing tasks, and dealing with straightforward statements about extended locking sounds exciting.
Since I’m happy in my relationship, there’s no need to bring a third person into the mix. So far, I’ve never worn a device for longer than one night, and currently, I don’t have any because previous ones either didn’t fit or broke. The idea of my girlfriend acting as my digital keyholder is very attractive. Here’s how I picture it:
Communication would happen through a dedicated chat app or notes left around the house. She wouldn’t physically lock me in but rather “send” an open padlock to me. After seeing this signal, I need to immediately put on the device and message her to confirm. She might respond with some supportive words.
Over the coming days, I’ll update my digital mistress via chat. When we’re together face-to-face, we won’t explicitly discuss the device; instead, she’ll likely just ask for massages or cuddles since I’ve taken on this role and there’s nothing stopping me from enjoying that connection while keeping to my vow of no orgasms. It allows us some romantic time.
My digital mistress will send over naughty messages and tasks, such as describing how the chastity device affects me physically and emotionally, or sending her a specific image from Tumblr that shows the cage fitting snugly tight.
Eventually, I’ll be “sent” the key for release. At that point, I can remove it and do what I please. Or maybe there are conditions attached to this freedom; who knows?
The challenge is figuring out how to blend a couple of activities I want to enjoy while locked up with her. For instance, worshipping her leather gear without getting released early. Or engaging in pegging play. Also, having tease sessions where the device stays on and she feeds me my pre-cum using her leather gloves.
Do you have thoughts on how these elements could work together? Or should they remain separate to maximize the contrast between our everyday interactions and her digital mistress persona?