With the new year drawing near once more, I find myself stepping into it as a single man without a partner. Since time is passing and my age is showing, I’ve made up my mind that this situation must shift in one way or another during this coming year.
I am primarily a submissive male, real, honest, open-minded, and genuine. I’m fully masculine—I’m no sissy, cuck, or doormat—and like any other man, I have sexual needs which I don’t intend to deny or suppress but rather fulfill at the right time in an appropriate manner under the guidance of a Dominant Lady.
I need someone who shares my mindset and views male chastity as part of a broader relationship dynamic that keeps Her firmly in charge. It’s about finding a Lady I can respect, submit to willingly with total confidence day-to-day. She should understand that life happens and sometimes chastity (and even submission) needs to take a back seat, yet remain confident enough to let this be, knowing I’ll honor her wishes and return happily to her control when circumstances permit.
I’m looking for someone with whom I can build a sincere long-term relationship offering mental, physical, and emotional satisfaction for both of us—I am NOT simply after a keyholder. She will be an active participant, a leader who is confident and secure in herself. Knowing exactly what she wants and how to obtain it, she’ll be realistic, compassionate, understanding yet firm when needed.
In return, you receive a single, reasonably sane, solvent, articulate, employed man ready and willing to stand by your side as a submissive partner with pride. I offer honesty, faithfulness, willingness, and compliance. While open to trying new things both within the BDSM realm and sexually, mutual trust must be established first.
Regarding chastity itself, I have decent experience having previously worn a CS-100 belt for six full months with no release except during bi-weekly cleaning. I’ve also spent time in Lancelot, HT V2 devices among others. How, when, if, and how long I remain locked is up to you; expect no pressure from me.
To reiterate, I DO NOT seek just a keyholder but a true Partner for a relationship that extends far beyond the bedroom. Maintaining such connections requires hard work, especially on her part, and my expectations are realistic. Life isn’t a porn movie—kinky games, chastity, and teasing aren’t always suitable or necessary—for this to succeed, our bond must thrive without those kinky elements as well as with them.
I realize I might not find exactly what I’m looking for; such Ladies are rare. If I do, excellent; if not, I’ll regretfully leave the lifestyle behind and return fully to vanilla living—I’d sooner sacrifice kink for happiness than lose both by holding out for an impossible dream.
Ideally you’re in Scotland (or at least the UK) due to logistics—long-distance romance often looks better on screen than it plays out in reality!
So.. let the silence begin;) S.