Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I have the CB6000 in clear. While I consider it a solid device, I find it somewhat heavy-handed or large for my taste. This has prompted me to pose some questions to the ladies here.

First off, when arousal sets in and pressure builds up on the penis, is that visible squashing effect something you find appealing, or does it put you off?

Secondly, what kind of chastity cage design do you prefer? Do you like a bulky look that openly displays who holds control, or would you rather have something more discreet? Would you choose a transparent model so the form is still seen, or one that completely conceals the anatomy?