Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

So in the spirit of getting back into the swing of things since the proposal, I ended up plugging @Thatguyontheinternet last night around 11pm. Hush plug is AMAZING! I seriously can’t recommend it enough! He wore it to sleep and all day while at work. I spent the day sending him random zaps. I’d get a text every time I did it too…sometimes I’d do a few consecutive ones and other times I’d wait an hour or so and send him a nice strong one. During the last 10 minutes of his drive home, instead of sending a little jolt, I turned it on halfway and just left it there, telling him I will turn it off once he goes to check out the pool to see if there were a ton of people there, and then come inside. Unfortunately, our garage is a bluetooth/wifi/cellular network black hole, so the plug stopped working:( He came upstairs and took out the plug to clean it and so I could charge it. I noticed an immediate change in his subbyness once it was out. We had a nice dinner and shower then went for quick walk after to get rid of the “too full tummy feeling”. I after the walk I was horny so decided to use him. I collared and leashed him and started out gagging him with my strap on and then held the leash to the floor with my foot while I flogged his ass - at one point I hit perfectly at the same time, his slut hole and balls. Then I proceeded pegged him while still caged for a good half an hour. I had a handful of orgasms, while he had none! When I was fully satisfied and he was no longer impaled by my 7 inch realistic toy, we both had a look at it and noticed it was bone dry! Like a good whore should be, he took it like a champ with not so much as a whimper and thanked me after. He is now on a walk, with his ass well used and slippery and I am sitting here, relaxing. Just received a text from him thanking me again for using him and that he is VERY happy I am using him to get off even though it is not with his little locked cock. He wants to be the best whore he can be for me and I am so very proud of him for being a real man and thanking me for using him. It is such an awesome feeling for me since I was so used to being the girl who was always walked all over and used my whole entire life! I am so very happy that our relationship is the kind of relationship that can turn something not “normal” in an every day sense into something that is beneficial (and FUN!!!) for both. It is beneficial for me because it allows me to develop the Dominance I never even knew existed before meeting him and it is beneficial for him, because he is the opposite of me and used to being in control of everything. It is teaching him that giving up and losing control is not necessarily a negative thing and can definitely have a positive impact in more ways than he could have ever imagined. He and I grow closer and even more in love every single day! We’ve been together two and a half years now and it somehow feels like we’ve been together forever but at the same time still manages to feel brand new! I wake up every morning knowing that our life together can only keep getting better and better! It really is such an amazing and awesome feeling! He has been locked now for 8 days and last had a cum 5 days ago.The goal is 14 days locked. Whether or not he cums while locked is up to me, but with he way things are looking, I will probably hold off. The key is in the kitchen safe with the batteries out. I took the batteries out 2 days ago with 5 days still left on the countdown and really not sure when I am going to put them back in to be honest. Everything that vibrates including my vibrator is locked away, and his Evotions PA cage is so secure he is unable to get off any other way than me. I learned the hard way about leaving my vibrators unattended while I sleep, lol!