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member_0ebfed86cd · 2026-09-07T16:49:03.000Z · 0 replies

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I’m new to this forum, though I’ve read through it a few times before. My wife and I have been exploring BDSM for over a year now. She is the dominant partner, while sometimes I switch roles just for fun. Last summer, after I suggested it, we bought a Curve device. Currently, I wear it for about a week each month. This aligned with our monthly “SM week,” but things have ramped up slightly since she proposed taking control of my finances for one month, inspired by the Swedish TV show “The teenage boss,” where a teen takes over the family’s economy. The idea instantly got me turned on, and within two weeks, I had handed over full control of my account to her, with it being emptied out. She also took possession of my debit and credit cards. I do get an allowance of about €20 in cash each week. If I need something specific, I have to politely ask for permission. This money is intended for lunch at work and other minor expenses, including gifts for her. The real twist is that we formalized it with a contract, giving my wife full authority over the funds I hold and any income during the contract period. The agreement includes a clause stating that each unauthorized orgasm or ejaculation extends the term by one month. I really enjoy losing control, and so far, I have no regrets. I tend to spend more than she does; she always saves more. This concept has greatly aroused me. One morning while out of my cage, I had an illicit ejaculation which extended our contract by another month… obviously, my lack of discipline needs work, but I worry about never getting out again as periods without the cage will likely grow longer and leave me on my own for stretches. Not telling my wife when I masturbate isn’t really an option for me. Has anyone tried something similar?

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