It’s a fresh beginning, so I thought it was time to start this new thread. The old one is linked here on the community page.
My wife and I have restarted our dynamic. While we were chatting, she mentioned that she enjoys the service and attention, but I suddenly stopped (when my soreness made wearing the device difficult).
So - I drafted a contract. Here are the main points: Expires in July 2010. I cannot ask to end it before then; if even I suggest we stop early, there is a 90-day delay on release. If I choose to end it myself, I swear an honor-bound agreement not to orgasm until July regardless. Asking about my next opportunity adds me 30 extra days. She decides when and NEVER tells me beforehand. The intervals will always exceed one month; usually between two or three months, with some very long stretches (6 months, maybe 9?) mixed in so I can’t easily predict. She is free to grant no releases until next July. I told her that if she holds out until then, I would consider it a gift. I cannot ask, hint, complain, or beg. Intercourse will be limited to about once a year because that satisfies me fully and drops sexual tension to zero. Other release methods will be self-induced or done by her hands. She assigns my chores. The contract specifies that if I do not perform my chores cheerfully or on time, or if my attitude suffers, she has the right to extend the term. She will remind me that this was my idea and she is simply fulfilling what I asked of her. She is doing me a favor by making me wait. The longer the wait, the more grateful I ought to be. I also suggested that I always wear a blindfold when she is undressed; she controls whether or not I can see her naked, if ever. I enjoy seeing her nude, and the prospect of being denied that view feels strangely erotic. I have even surrendered control over it. It’s like jumping off a cliff:-)
Regarding the CD (Chastity Device), I slit a plastic rod and gathered my pubic hairs above it. It is tied shut for now; I just need to find waterproof glue. I used a 3-inch rod attached to the CD to keep me from pulling down and sliding out. The idea came from the piercing concept presented by Locked4Love in the Tower section.
If each installation lasts about a month before needing redoing, this might finally solve my issue. No O-ring pinching or causing sores, and for once, no escape. Finally, what I wanted.
Wish me luck! I have taken the plunge. Worst case scenario: only 11 months … js