Introductions discussion

Hey everyone…yes, I’m new here. My journey began when I was searching for ways to add some excitement to the marital sex life with my wife. She naturally has a somewhat Dominant personality, so this Kink fits her perfectly. I brought it up to her and after a quick browse on our favorite Toy site where we found several options, she picked out an M300 hinged ring Chrome Cage. The problem was that it only included two rings which were both Uncomfortable, and the cage length felt too long for me. UPDATE ..We discovered another set of rings suitable for use along with a new shorter Chrome cage intended for future acquisition. Lesson learned: We ordered a CB6000s which is WAY better. Within just 2 days of full lock-up my wife has completely taken charge…UPDATE…My KH modified the CB6000s by scooping out grooves in the rings and Gave me a Burning ring on the ball skin where the tissue tried to fill those gaps; once I told her about it, she put Door daft Seal into the ring grooves solving the issue entirely. She says there will be no release/orgasm/teasing/denial or anything else until she decides…it was going to be a long weekend…and it WAS indeed. My Wife/KH has now come up with a Cunning plan for me. A 7-day spreadsheet listing tasks that must be completed daily around the house and for Her, like Foot massages where I serve as her butler etc (on days when she isn’t working); each duty includes an (Approved) tick box. After completing each task, she Inspects it to decide whether or not she approves. after 11 of these Duty’s are completed each day, she might choose what happens next or simply ignore them…She chooses the latter Very often. The whole system still relies on her random choice and serves to frustrate me daily as much as possible according to how she sees fit. She enjoys my frustration already since I have a VERY high sex drive while she is pretty normal but very controlled. It has been 3 weeks now and my KH demands that I wear it all day and night when at home, though i am allowed release for Work (shift work)…FOR NOW…plus its still undergoing trial runs soon ill also need to wear it in the workplace too. My KH and i are not strictly practising FLR but we do incorporate some aspects sometimes just for fun; I guess there is some FLR play elements within Chastity games anyway. We are also not living a Cuckolding or Hotwife lifestyle and keep that aspect more towards fantasy…thats my side of things rather than Hers. So here it is, my Introduction.