Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I picked up the cb6000 yesterday. Since it’s my first time around, I’m experimenting a lot to find the right fit… For instance, how can you tell if it is squeezing too hard on your balls…? They don’t turn blue, but they stay red. A larger ring allows for some breathing room, while a smaller one feels very tight. So I tried various spacers.. seems like it’s working well now, had it on overnight… and those midnight erections… wow… you really feel that haha I am not under the control of a Mistress, just occasionally doing sessions with a friend. She lives about 2 hours away though. She will be my keyholder, but using plastic locks. If for some reason i need to break free (for example, if the tube slips and pinches my penis..?) i can cut the lock. However, if i cut it because I really need to… she won’t speak to me for 6 months… So I think that is a great way of making sure it stays on. It’s numbered so she can verify. Anyway.. Up till now it feels comfortable… wore it last night in the car, walking, sleeping.. went fine.. Just some more minor adjustments and we’re ready for the real lock. I imagine what it will do to your mind after a week… i can only wait and see what happens. :) greetings from the Netherlands.